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Ani zdaleka není sexuální orientace jen o erotice, na to se nesmí zapomínat:
Sexual orientation is commonly discussed as a characteristic of the individual,
like biological sex, gender identity, race, or age. Although this perspective is accurate insofar as
it goes, it is incomplete because sexual orientation is always defined in relational terms and
necessarily involves relationships with other individuals. Sexual acts and romantic attractions are
characterized as homosexual or heterosexual according to the biological sex of the individuals
involved in them, relative to each other. Indeed, it is by acting with another person – or
expressing a desire to act – that individuals express their heterosexuality, homosexuality, or
bisexuality. This includes sexual behaviors as well as actions that simply express affection, such
as holding hands with or kissing another person.
Thus, sexual orientation is integrally linked to the intimate personal relationships
that human beings form with others to meet their deeply felt needs for love, attachment, and
intimacy. These bonds encompass not only sexual behavior, but also feelings of affection
between partners, shared goals and values, mutual support, and ongoing commitment.
Consequently, sexual orientation is not merely a personal characteristic that can be defined in
isolation. Rather, one’s sexual orientation defines the universe of persons with whom one is
likely to find the satisfying and fulfilling relationships that, for many individuals, comprise an
essential component of personal identity.
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